SCYSL Code of Conduct
SCYSL Player Code of Conduct
- Play for the fun of it, not just to please your parents or coach.
- Play by the rules.
- Never argue with or complain about the referee calls or decisions.
- Control your temper and most of all, resist the temptation to retaliate when you feel you have been wronged.
- Concentrate on playing soccer and on affecting the outcome of the game with your best effort. Work equally hard for your team as for yourself.
- Be a good sport by cheering all good plays, whether it is your team’s or your opponent’s.
- Treat all players as you would like to be treated.
- Remember that the goals of the game are to have fun, improve skills and feel good. Don’t be a showoff or a ball hog.
- Cooperate with your coaches, teammates, opponents and the referees.
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SCYSL Parent Code of Conduct
- Make sure your children know that win or lose, scared or heroic, you love them, appreciate their efforts, and are not disappointed in them. This will allow them to do their best without a fear of failure. Be the person in their life they can look to for constant positive enforcement.
- Try your best to be completely honest about your child’s athletic capability, their competitive attitude, sportsmanship, and actual skill level.
- Be helpful, but don’t coach them on the way to the rink, pool, or field, or on the way back, or at breakfast, and so on. Its tough not to, but it’s a lot tougher for the child to be inundated with advice, pep talks, and often critical instruction.
- Teach them to enjoy the thrill of competition, to be out there trying, to be working to improve their skills and attitudes. Help them to develop the feel for competing, for trying hard, for having fun.
- Try not to re-live your athletic life through your children in a way that creates pressure; you fumbled, too, you lost as well as won. You were frightened, you backed off at times, and you were not always heroic. Don’t pressure them because of your lost pride.
- Don’t compete with the coach. If the coach becomes an authority figure, it will run from enchantment to disenchantment, etc., with your athlete.
- Don’t compare the skill, courage, or attitudes of your children with other members of the team, at least within his hearing.
- Get to know the coach so that you can be assured that the philosophy, attitudes, ethics, and knowledge are such that you are happy to have your child under this leadership.
- Always remember that children tend to exaggerate, both when praised and when
- criticized. Temper your reaction and investigate before overreacting.
- Make a point of understanding courage, and the fact that it is relative. Some of us can climb mountains, and are afraid to fight. Some of us will fight, but turn to jelly if a bee approaches. Everyone is frightened in certain areas. Explain that courage is not the absence of fear, but a means of doing something in spite of fear or discomfort. The job of the parent of an athletic child is a tough one, and it takes a lot of effort to do it well. It is worth all the effort when you hear your youngster say, my parents really helped, I was lucky, in this.
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